Your world just got hit.
Maybe she said she wants space.
Maybe she dropped the divorce word.
Maybe she is cold, distant...
and you can feel her slipping.
You are spinning between
panic,
anger,
begging,
withdrawal,
and overthinking.
You are reading articles,
watching videos,
trying to piece together tactics…
while your body is in fight or flight.
You are afraid you are losing
your wife,
your kids,
your home,
and your identity.
You are not sleeping well.
You replay every mistake.
You promise yourself you will do better...
then your emotions hijack you again and you react.
Then you pursue…
over explain…
over apologize…
argue logically with emotional situations…
try to fix everything quickly…
lose your grounding…
and unintentionally accelerate the collapse.
Nothing is working.
You feel stuck.
Your world just got hit.
Maybe she said she wants space.
Maybe she dropped the divorce word.
Maybe she is cold, distant...
and you can feel her slipping.
You are spinning between
panic,
anger,
begging,
withdrawal,
and overthinking.
You are reading articles,
watching videos,
trying to piece together tactics…
while your body is in fight or flight.
You are afraid you are losing
your wife,
your kids,
your home,
and your identity.
You are not sleeping well.
You replay every mistake.
You promise yourself you will do better...
then your emotions hijack you again and you react.
Then you pursue…
over explain…
over apologize…
argue logically with emotional situations…
try to fix everything quickly…
lose your grounding…
and unintentionally accelerate the collapse.
Nothing is working.
You feel stuck.
PHASE 1 is not couples counseling.
PHASE 1 is not marriage therapy.
PHASE 1 is not you trying to fix her.
PHASE 1 is about stabilizing...
you.
You learn how to get...
your emotional feet back under you,
regain presence,
and start leading yourself like a man who can be trusted and respected again.
This is a focused coaching container for men whose marriage is collapsing right now.
PHASE 1 is for you if:
1. Your wife is pulling away or talking about separation or divorce.
2. The home feels unstable and tense.
3. You know your emotional reactions are making things worse.
4. You want to fight for your marriage without chasing, begging, or losing yourself
Before you try to win her back...
you become the man who could actually lead a restored marriage.
Crisis Stabilization:
Crisis Stabilization teaches a man...
How to regulate instead of react…
How to be calm, present, and steady…
How to respond when she says she needs space…
How to communicate without chasing or collapsing…
How to rebuild respect without forcing connection…
How to shift from emotional panic to emotional leadership…
How to create stability in an unstable home…
Power of Self Awareness:
You stop running on autopilot.
You learn to see your...
thoughts,
emotions, and
patterns
in real time
so your reactions do not run your life.
Power of Choice with Extreme Ownership:
You shift from victim to author.
You recognize that every response is a choice,
and you start choosing actions that protect your future
instead of bleeding out in the moment.
Power of Perception and Reframing:
You learn to control the story in your head. You reframe triggers and conflict so you can respond with logic instead of panic, and you stop letting her every word dictate your emotional state.
Power of Core Values and Boundaries:
You define the code you live by as a man…
then you protect it with clear boundaries in
your time,
communication,
and behavior.
You stop over functioning,
over explaining,
and over
giving out of fear.
Power of Integrity and Authenticity:
You stop performing.
You live in alignment with your values in all eight pillars of your life so you can look in the mirror and respect the man you see… whether she ever comes back or not.
STEP 1: The 45 Minute Strategy Call
This call gives you clarity on your situation and helps you understand how PHASE 1 works. During the session, we map what you are facing, identify the patterns that are making the crisis worse, and determine whether this coaching is the right fit for you. We only allow 1 strategy call per client.
STEP 2. Get Signed Up
1. Select Your Coaching Option:
OPTION 1: PHASE 1 with 1:1 Weekly Coaching + 8-Week Course
OPTION 2: PHASE 1 with 1:1 Weekly Coaching + 8-Week Course + Crisis Text Support
UPGRADE: Add On Additional 4-Week 1:1 Coaching Sessions at a Discount
UPGRADE: Add On Additional 4-Week 1:1 Coaching Sessions at a Discount + Crisis Text Support
2. Make Your Initial Payment - Stripe or PayPal available
3. Review and Sign the Terms of Enrollment Paperwork
4. Receive Your Member Login Setup Email.
STEP 3: Intake and Crisis Assessment
Once you receive your Member Login Setup email and enter your private portal, your first task is the Intake and Crisis Assessment.
This is a detailed onboarding process that gives the coach a complete picture of your situation so the next 8 weeks can be tailored specifically to you.
The Intake and Crisis Assessment helps the coach understand:
• all key players involved in your situation
• the dynamics inside your marriage or separation
• your crisis timeline and major turning points
• your communication patterns
• your wife’s current behavior and relational distance
• legal concerns or parenting considerations
• your emotional patterns and triggers
• the severity of instability in the home
• your short term and long term goals for Phase 1
• your readiness for change and leadership
• any risks or immediate pressure points that must be addressed
This assessment is comprehensive because PHASE 1 requires precise strategy.
The more detailed your responses, the more accurately we can build your 8 week coaching plan and stabilize your situation quickly.
STEP 4… The 8 Week PHASE 1 Coaching Container
PHASE 1 is an 8 Week intensive designed to stabilize you… rebuild your presence…
and shift the direction of your marriage.
You receive…
• 1 focused 1-on-1 coaching session each week
• tactical guidance on live situations
• emotional regulation and leadership training
• communication pattern correction
• direct application of the Power Tools into your real life decisions
This is where we stabilize the crisis and rebuild your internal leadership week by week.
STEP 5… The Self Paced 8 Week Course
Alongside your 1-on-1 coaching, you will complete an 8 Week online course designed to reinforce and accelerate your transformation.
Most men complete 1 lesson per day, but it is fully self paced.
The course covers…
• self awareness
• disciplined emotional responses
• reframing and perspective shifts
• defining your core values
• building masculine boundaries
• communicating with clarity and brevity
• rebuilding confidence and identity
The course is what anchors you daily so you grow between sessions.
STEP 6… Optional Add On… Additional Months At A Reduced Rate
If you want continued support after your initial 8 Weeks,
you can pre purchase additional 4 Week blocks of coaching
at a discounted rate during enrollment.
This option is ideal for men who:
have complex situations
• are moving toward separation or legal steps
• want a longer runway of accountability and guidance
STEP 7… Optional Crisis Text Support Add On
For men who want guidance between sessions, you can add Crisis Text Support.
Availability… Monday through Friday… 8…5 MST
Response window… within 3 hours during these times
Crisis Text Support helps you:
• regulate emotions before reacting
• avoid panic driven decisions
• stay aligned with your goals
• reinforce the tactics you are learning in PHASE 1
Crisis Text Support does NOT include:
• drafting messages to your wife
• mediating conflict
• legal advice
• emergency support