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Does Your Divorce Make You Feel Like You're Losing Everything?

Take Back Control of Your Life, Finances,

and Time with Your Kids.

Learn the strategies to protect yourself, navigate the legal battles,

and rebuild stronger than ever.

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Is Your Divorce Spinning Out of Control?

Why Finances Feel Like

They’re Slipping Away

For many men, divorce is a financial nightmare. Legal fees are skyrocketing, assets are being split, and alimony or child support payments loom large. The fear of losing everything you’ve worked so hard for is real. Without a clear strategy, every financial decision feels like stepping into quicksand. Are you making the right moves, or is your financial future in jeopardy?

It’s not just about survival—it’s about ensuring you’re not left with nothing when it’s all over. Many men make emotional decisions during divorce that cost them thousands in the long run.

We help you protect your assets, plan

smartly, and ensure your financial stability

for the future.

Why Your Legal Strategy

Is Failing You

Working with a lawyer isn’t just about hiring someone to fight for you...it’s about

controlling the strategy and understanding the process. Many men find themselves buried in legal jargon, feeling powerless as their lawyer racks up fees with no clear direction. The reality is, your lawyer works for you, but too many men make the mistake of letting their lawyer dictate the terms without staying involved in key decisions.

It’s easy to feel like the legal process is spiraling out of control, but it doesn’t have to be that way. You can manage your lawyer, control your legal costs, and develop a strategic game plan that puts you in the driver’s seat, ensuring that every move counts.

We’ll show you how to take charge, control costs, and develop a legal strategy that keeps you in control.

Losing Emotional Control in the Heat of Divorce

The emotional rollercoaster of divorce is brutal. Anger, fear, frustration—they’re all normal, but if you let them guide your decisions, you’re destined to lose. When emotions take over, rational thinking takes a back seat, and that’s when men make their worst mistakes. You might find yourself reacting to every provocation from your ex, losing your temper, or making hasty decisions that can’t be undone.

The secret to success? Emotional control. Divorce is a long game, and it’s won by the men who keep their cool, plan their moves, and don’t let their emotions dictate their decisions.

We'll help you master emotional clarity, so you can make the best choices for yourself and your family, without losing your sanity.

How Co-Parenting Is Becoming a Battlefield

Co-parenting is supposed to be about what's best for the kids—but when emotions run high and communication breaks down, it can feel more like a battlefield. Trying to negotiate schedules, make joint decisions, and shield your children from the conflict often feels impossible. The tension between you and your ex can spill over into every conversation, making it seem like your kids are caught in the crossfire.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

We’ll teach you how to create a co-parenting strategy that protects your children, reduces conflict, and keeps you sane. You can stop the chaos and build a stable, loving environment for your kids, even when everything else feels uncertain.

The Cost of Not Having a Plan

Without a clear plan, divorce can become a runaway train. Every misstep can cost you more money, more time, and more of your peace of mind. Many men find themselves at the mercy of their ex’s demands or trapped in endless legal battles because they didn’t have a strategy. Without knowing what to expect, you’ll always be reacting rather than acting with purpose.

A smart, strategic plan is key to getting through divorce with your sanity and future intact.

We help you develop that plan from day one, so you stay ahead of the game, protect your assets, and minimize the emotional toll of divorce.

Rebuilding Your Identity

and Masculinity After Divorce

Divorce doesn’t just affect your legal status—it can completely shake your sense of identity. You’re no longer a husband, and your role as a father may feel diminished. Many men feel lost, wondering who they are without the marriage that once defined them. But divorce can also be an opportunity to rebuild yourself—to become stronger, more resilient, and more aligned with who you truly want to be.

We help you rebuild your identity as part of Man 2.0—the next, stronger version of yourself. You’ll learn how to embrace your new reality and step into a life that’s built on your terms, not defined by your past.

Navigating High-Conflict Divorces with Strategy

High-conflict divorces are some of the toughest to manage. Constant disputes, accusations, and emotional warfare can wear you down and leave you feeling hopeless. But the key to navigating these difficult divorces is strategy, not emotion. Letting your ex push your buttons will only give her more control.

We’ll teach you how to stay calm, respond strategically, and take actions that protect you long-term.

We give you the tools to get through the toughest divorces with your dignity—and your future—intact.

Protecting Your Relationship with Your Kids

Your kids are everything. But in the chaos of divorce, it’s easy for your relationship with them to take a hit. Maybe you’re fighting for more time, or your ex is making things difficult. Worse, you might feel like your kids are starting to pull away, confused by the changes.

We show you how to protect your relationship with your children, even in the midst of a high-conflict divorce. We help you develop co-parenting strategies that put your kids’ needs first, so you can stay connected and be the father they need you to be.

Why Therapy May

Not Be Enough

Therapy has its place, but when you’re in the middle of a high-conflict divorce, sitting on a couch talking about your feelings often doesn’t cut it. Traditional therapy tends to focus on the past—on healing emotional wounds that, while important, don’t always help you deal with the immediate chaos of divorce. You don’t need to just talk about the problem—you need a plan to solve it.

We take an action-based approach. We don’t dwell on what’s behind you. We focus on helping you make smart, strategic moves that will protect your future. Therapy might help you understand your emotions, but we help you take control of your life, your finances, and your family. Divorce is a battlefield, and you need more than emotional support—you need real, practical guidance to navigate the mess and come out stronger.

Let's Look At The Statistics

Men's Health

8X Suicide

Suicide Risk: Divorced men are nearly 8 times more likely to die by suicide compared to divorced women. (Psychology Today)(Psychology Today).

Some sources cite this figure as 9 times more likely. (Psychology Today).

250%

Mortality Rate: The mortality rate for divorced men is 250% higher than for married men.

They suffer from more heart attacks and strokes, likely due to stress and social isolation.

(Psychology Today)(Psychology Today)

>20%

Social Isolation: Less than 20% of men receive custody of their children post-divorce. The separation from their children can contribute to feelings of isolation, depression, and psychological distress.

(Psychology Today)(Psychology Today)

+20%

Substance Abuse and Mental Health: Divorced men face significantly higher rates of depression and substance abuse. Divorced men are 20% more likely to suffer from

long-term health problems like heart disease, diabetes, and cancer. (Psychology Today)(Psychology Today)

+23%

Health Decline: Divorced men experience a 23% higher likelihood of mobility issues, such as difficulty walking or climbing stairs, and are more likely to suffer from

long-term physical health problems.

(Psychology Today)

Fathers With Their Kids

40%

Joint Custody Benefits: Research shows that 40% of custodial fathers have joint custody arrangements. Fathers who secure custody or joint custody tend to maintain more stable employment and are less likely to live in poverty compared to custodial mothers.

(Katie Lewis Family Law)(Institute for Family Studies)

Better Kids

Child Well-Being: Children who have active and engaged fathers, even after divorce, show better outcomes in school performance, social skills, and emotional stability. Studies indicate that children with involved fathers are less likely to develop behavioral problems and have a reduced risk of substance abuse and delinquency.

(DadsRights)(Dads Resource Center)

NO Father Absence

Father Absence: The absence of a father is linked to numerous social issues, including higher rates of youth incarceration, teen pregnancy, and academic struggles. A father’s absence is seen as a significant factor in almost every social issue facing children, according to many father advocacy groups. (Dads Resource Center)

~75% FT Employment

Poverty and Financial Stability: Custodial fathers are more likely to be employed full-time and are less likely to rely on public assistance compared to custodial mothers. Nearly 75% of custodial fathers worked full-time throughout the year, while only about 50% of custodial mothers did the same. (KLL Family Law)(Institute for Family Studies)

Financial Struggles

15-20% less $

Employment and Career Setbacks: Divorced men are more likely to experience employment challenges. The emotional toll of divorce, combined with custody battles and legal fees, can lead to diminished job performance and even job loss. Studies show that men's earning potential can drop by 15-20% due to the distractions and time lost during a divorce. (Dads Resource Center)

25% Drop

97% Alimony

Alimony and Child Support: About 97% of alimony payments are made by men, and many struggle with the financial burden of these payments. In addition, 20% of divorced fathers report severe financial stress from child support payments, which can account for a large portion of their income(KLL Family Law).

Men who pay child support or alimony often experience financial hardship due to having to maintain their own living expenses while supporting their ex-spouse and children(Institute for Family Studies).

1/2 Retirement

Retirement Savings: Divorce can have a long-term impact on retirement savings. Studies show that men lose a significant portion of their retirement assets during a divorce. Divorced men are much more likely to see their retirement savings cut in half as they split these assets with their ex-spouse (Psychology Today)(Psychology Today). This financial hit can delay retirement by several years.

For men with significant assets, legal fees can rise even higher.

20% Poverty

Poverty Risk: While men are less likely than women to live in poverty post-divorce, those who do experience financial hardship often see a significant drop in their standard of living. Around 20% of divorced men report falling into poverty, especially those with substantial alimony or child support obligations. (Institute for Family Studies).

Legal Challenges

$15k-30k

Legal Fees

Legal Fees: Divorce can be extremely costly, especially for men involved in high-conflict custody battles or complex asset divisions. The average cost of a divorce in the U.S. ranges from $15,000 to $30,000, depending on whether the divorce is contested or involves significant assets. (DadsRights).

For men with significant assets, legal fees can rise even higher.

$50k+

Legal Fees

Legal Fees for Contested Divorces: In contested divorces, where there is no agreement on custody or financial issues, attorney fees can reach as high as $50,000 or more. The more contentious the divorce, the more legal fees accrue, which can severely strain a man’s finances. (DadsRights)(Psychology Today). The need for multiple court appearances and extensive legal preparation can dramatically increase these costs.

For these reasons, men need A COACH on their side.

We help men.

Separation Coaching

+ Divorce Coaching

+ Divorce Recovery Coaching

=

Saving The Man Coaching

Learn to Master Your Next Move: Strategic Divorce and Recovery Coaching for Men to Rebuild and Thrive.

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Meet Coach Nick

FOUNDER & Head CoacH

I’ve been right where you are—wondering if things would ever stop falling apart, wondering if I’d ever feel whole again. But I promise you, the storm does end, and there’s a path through it that you can walk with clarity and strength.

Let me tell you about my journey.

I’ve been through not just one, but two high-conflict divorces. I survived lengthy, grueling custody battles filled with conflict, false accusations, and a constant drain on my emotions and finances. There were times when it felt like I was fighting a battle I couldn’t win. Like you, I wondered if I’d ever get my life back.

I didn’t always handle it gracefully. Divorce brought me to my knees more than once. There were days when the stress of it all left me overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and questioning how I’d rebuild after it was over.

But here’s the thing—it didn’t break me. I rebuilt myself, brick by brick. I learned how to take control, strategize, and regain my power. Divorce didn’t destroy me. In fact, it forced me to become stronger, more focused, and more in control of my life than ever before.

What I’m offering you isn’t just a blueprint for surviving divorce—it’s a path to reclaiming your life, your strength, and your sense of purpose. I’ve been through the fire, and now I’m here to help you write your own comeback story.

Real-Life Experience with High-Conflict Divorce:

Strategic Coaching Rooted in Mental Toughness

Certified Divorce Coach (In Progress)

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What Other Men Are Saying

TESTIMONIALS

"The group coaching sessions gave me a community of men who truly understood my struggles."

"Saving The Man Coaching changed my life. I was lost, feeling broken after my wife asked for a divorce. I had no idea how to cope, let alone rebuild my confidence and my life. The group coaching sessions gave me a community of men who truly understood my struggles. The strategies taught by Saving The Man helped me shift my focus to personal growth and regain control over my emotions and decisions. The chess-themed framework was a game changer—I learned how to think several steps ahead, be deliberate in my actions, and lead myself with purpose. Now, instead of letting the divorce define me, I’ve used it as an opportunity to evolve and become the best version of myself. If you're going through a divorce or just trying to recover, this program is exactly what you need."

- John D., 53. Denver, CO

"...they gave me the tools to regain my power..."

"I felt like my world was falling apart when my wife left. The chaos, the uncertainty, and the emotional rollercoaster were overwhelming. That’s when I found Saving The Man Coaching. The coaching sessions were more than just advice—they gave me the tools to regain my power, rebuild my confidence, and take charge of my future. The framework that focuses on self-awareness, ownership, and emotional resilience resonated with me deeply. What stood out the most was how quickly I saw progress, not just in how I handled the divorce but in how I began to see myself. This program helped me realize that my life wasn’t over—it was just beginning, and I’m stronger now than I’ve ever been."

- Michael B., 38, Columbus, OH

"I knew it was the right decision."

"I was hesitant to reach out for help when I hit rock bottom during my divorce. But the moment I joined Saving The Man Coaching, I knew it was the right decision. The group coaching environment gave me a sense of belonging and accountability that I never expected. The principles of self-leadership and acceptance taught me how to stop dwelling on what I couldn’t control and focus on what I could change. Each session felt like I was making tactical moves to better my life—just like a game of chess. Today, I’m a completely different man, with renewed confidence and purpose. I can’t thank Saving The Man enough for guiding me through the toughest time of my life."